Twin flame relationships and soulmate relationships are two of the most beautiful types of romantic relationships a human being can experience.
They both come with a strong and unique connection that makes us experience love at a whole new level and they have a very meaningful purpose in our lives, guiding us on our spiritual journey and on the path through evolution.
But there seems to be a lot of confusion between the two, and many people are not sure if they have met their twin flame, their soulmate, or if they are simply in a karmic relationship.
Therefore, in this article, I will explain the key traits of a twin flame, a soulmate relationship, and how to distinguish them from one another.
I’ll also help you understand the role that each of them plays in our lives.
What Is a Twin Flame?
A twin flame is a person who shares the same soul as you.
From a spiritual point of view, they are your “other half”, although that does not mean that you are incomplete or that you need someone else to feel whole.
The soul is the divine essence of any person, that energy in all of us which is made out of light and love.
All souls are split in two before their first reincarnation on earth, and their mission is to find each other and contribute to the other one’s spiritual growth.
They are just like the yin and yang parts of the duality symbol – opposites from some points of view even though each of them contains the essence of each other.
All Universe is based on duality, in order to maintain the cycle of life in balance, therefore we have light and dark, night and day, good and bad, summer and winter, hot and cold, masculine and feminine, and so on.
Because we are created in accordance with the main spiritual laws – or in religious terms, by God’s image, we too are divided into two parts that perfectly complement and complete each other.
How Do You Recognize Your Twin Flame?
Now that we have seen what a Twin Flame is, let’s see how you can recognize them when you meet them, before moving on to the topic of what is a soulmate and how to differentiate the two.
If you have a hunch that someone might be your twin flame, here are the main traits of twin flame relationship:
1. You feel an instant, magnetic connection.
When you first met them you had this unexplainable feeling that you met someone very special to you, as if you had been waiting for them your whole life.
You fell crazy in love straight away because they had all the attributes that you generally look for in a person and it was almost too good to be true.
You had this feeling that you have known them since forever and that you can talk to them about almost anything without the fear of being judged, even though you were basically strangers.
2. They bring you closer to your life purpose and divine mission.
Strangely enough, your twin flame is generally also someone who shares the same life purpose as you – maybe they work in the same field or have the same passion and hobbies, making you re-discover once again why you chose that one purpose and helping you learn more and achieve more.
If they don’t happen to share the same life purpose, then in one way or another they will still bring you closer to your divine mission by making you feel and understand what you should do at the current stage in your life.
3. They are your mirror.
Your twin flame will be very similar to you from some points of view, giving you the impression that you are looking in a mirror.
But from other points of view, they will be exactly the opposite of you.
Nonetheless, in all aspects, they will make you see things about yourself that you didn’t see before – the unhealed wounds, the deepest fear, mistakes, repetitive patterns and so on.
Basically they will push all your “painful buttons” in order to urge you to heal yourself at the deepest level possible thus helping you evolve spiritually and bringing you closer to enlightenment.
4. You will find yourself in the runner-chaser dynamic.
This dynamic is specific to the twin flame relationship and everyone who has found their twin will experience it sooner or later.
This phase is also called the “separation”, and during it, the most awoken twin will be the chaser – the one who deeply desires the relationship and is ready for the reunion meanwhile the less awoken one will be the runner.
The runner will be scared by the intensity of the twin flame relationship and everything about themselves that they finally see mirrored in the other one.
They will not be ready to do the necessary work in order to make the healing happen, therefore they will feel the need to distance themselves from their twin.
Needless to mention, this will be very painful for the chaser, but it is important to bear in mind that the reunion will happen at one stage or the other – even if it’s in the next life.
5. You will experience unusual telepathy and a very strong spiritual bond.
In the moments when you are not together or during the separation phase you will still know a lot from what your twin is thinking and/or feeling.
Since the moment you first met them, you will be connected to them at all times, often feeling strange emotions that don’t seem to be yours.
What is a Soulmate?
A soulmate is someone who comes from the same soul family as you, but they do not necessarily share the exact same soul.
It means that your souls are similar, they are made out of the same essence, but still a bit different.
The difference between the twin flame and soulmate can easily be compared to the difference between brothers and cousins.
Brothers share the same blood due to the fact that they come from the same parents, meanwhile, cousins share the same blood and genes in a small percentage, and their genetic baggage is similar, therefore they too are similar in appearance.
One of the main differences between soulmates and twin flames is that, while twin flames are mirroring our deepest fears and hidden problems, triggering the healing through pain, soulmates are here to support us, give us understanding and guidance through any rough patch we may reach.
Therefore, the soulmate relationship can look very different from the twin flame relationship.
The twin flame relationship is characterized by ups and downs, separations and reunions, pain and growth, whereas the soulmate relationship is a peaceful and tranquil relationship, based on friendship and mutual support.
Another important difference between the two is that the soulmate does not have to be a romantic partner (although they can be).
They can easily be a family member or a good friend who seems to be your rock and your main source of unconditional love during any crisis that may arise.
Because the soulmate comes from the same soul family as you and that involves the fact that in a soul family there are more members, you can encounter more than one soulmate during this lifetime.
How Do You Recognize Your Soulmate?
Now that we have seen what a soulmate is and how you can distinguish them from a twin flame, here are the main signs that someone you know is your soulmate:
You have a steady and profound relationship, based mainly on friendship.
Whether your soulmate is a romantic partner, family member, acquaintance, or a friend, this friendship-based attitude is deeply rooted in your relationship and you can rely on this person for absolutely anything.
They are the ones who know your darkest secrets and still not judge you in any way, they were by your side during your hardest trials and you know deep down that they would do whatever it takes to support you through whatever life throws at you.
Also, you feel that you would do exactly the same for them.
Your relationship has an easy flow and seems like it’s meant to be.
Regardless of the nature of your relationship, you have always been on good terms with them, barely ever fought and felt like you are on the same page 99% of the time.
This is because you are meant to support each other almost like guardian angels would do.
They will not be the one triggering your painful growth and pushing all those “right buttons”, but they will by your side providing unlimited support and understanding when that happens.
If you ever fight, you always forgive each other quickly and easily.
Fights may appear especially during difficult times but reconciliation is inevitable.
Sometimes you reconcile almost without the need to talk about the fight, because deep down you love and respect each other too much to be able to be upset with each other.
They seem to anticipate your needs and desires.
In a soulmate relationship, there is a bit of telepathy as well but it is different from the type of telepathy you have in a twin flame relationship.
In a twin flame relationship, the telepathy is very intense and sometimes you “pick up” frequencies from the other one when you least expect that that can destabilize your mental balance for a while.
In a soulmate relationship, the telepathy is nice and easy, and you mainly anticipate what the other one desires or what upsets them in order to be able to help them or fulfill their wish.
Even the telepathy between you two signals the fact that you are meant to help and support each other.
For example, if your soulmate has been in a very unpleasant fight with their boss before they are supposed to meet you, you might feel the vibe of anger coming from them so that you can prepare anything in your arsenal in order to calm them down.
During painful events and massive challenges in your life, they are by your side.
Even if they just happen to be by your side by accident, it seems like it is inevitable that every time you stumble and fall down, they will be there to help you up.
If a longer period of time goes by without communicating with each other and something bad happens, they will call all of a sudden, because they felt that something is wrong with you.
To sum it up, the roles that your twin flame and your soulmate will play in your life are different yet both very necessary.
Your twin flame is meant to help you evolve and grow even if that means they have to trigger your deepest wounds and pains but eventually they are the ones you will end up with, in this life or one the next ones, in the ultimate reunion of souls.
Your soulmate, on the other hand, will be that one faithful person lifting you up every time you fall, just like a guardian angel, and always treating you with unconditional love and kindness.
Now that you have seen what the differences and similarities between soulmates and twin flames are, I hope that you will be able to recognize them in your life and accept the role that each of them has to play.
Both the twin flame relationship and the soulmate relationship are sent to us with a special purpose, because we never meet anyone by accident.
Every person we meet while on our spiritual journey has a special role to play in our life.