Ah, how to manifest love with a specific person. The question on so many peoples minds.
And unrequited love. It really sucks, doesn’t it? You’re madly in love with someone. They speak and it strikes a chord in your soul.
You can tell they’re around the corner just by the faintest whiff of their perfume. You shake hands, and to them it’s only a handshake, but you? You’re never going to wash that hand. Ever.
Yet, certain as you are that they’re the one for you, as far as they’re concerned, you barely exist.
So you want to know exactly how to manifest love with a specific person? Read on then.
I once wanted to manifest a specific person too. This person was my ex. Things had ended really badly between us, and I wanted nothing else than to have her back in my arms. I tried everything. Nothing was working out. I became obsessed with her. Looking back now I cringe a bit.
MORE WANTING, LEADS TO MORE WANTING
The more I wanted her, the further and further away she was. Eventually she changed numbers, her email, and moved out of state.
Needless to say I was a wreck. The more I wanted her, the more I wanted her. The more my universe gave me more reason to keep wanting – because that’s the vibration I was putting out. Lack.
A LIGHTBULB MOMENT
After months and months of depression and pining, one day, a light bulb went off. I needed to learn to love myself! I needed to give myself the love I felt she should have given me. So one day at a time, I did just that. Over time, I had let go.
IN THE END
I never got her back. I know, I am not doing a great job of encouraging you right? Well guess what? I am now in a relationship which is the best I’ve ever had! What am I trying to tell you?
NEVER MAKE IT ABOUT ANYTHING OUTSIDE OF YOURSELF
Listen, when it comes to love, money, whatever it is you want, you cannot get what you are not. That’s because everything is you, expressed. Take a beat. Look around you. Look at your life. Everything you’re seeing, everything you’re experiencing, is a representation of you. It’s all you!
There is nothing outside of yourself, so if you lack something, look to yourself.
That specific person you want to manifest love with … TAKE THEM OFF THE PEDESTAL
If you feel anything like how I did when my ex broke things off with me, you probably only live and breathe this person. Stop. Just stop. Ask yourself what you really, really want. It’s not them. I know, it seems like it’s just them, and nothing else, but that’s not it. Drill down to what you really desire.
YOU WANT TO LOVE AND BE LOVED.
You want this. The only reason you want them is because you feel when you have them, you’ll be happy. There’s a shortcut to all of this. Get happy first! Feel good first! THEN what you want will come.
BUT I WANT TO KNOW HOW TO MANIFEST LOVE WITH A SPECIFIC PERSON!
Don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying you can’t have a specific person. Matter of fact, my buddy Matt just did the exact same thing. He and is wife Yvonne had been separated for over a year. But he manifested her back. The point is, you have to get to the very core of what you desire, because it might just be that there’s someone much better for you than this specific person.
How To Manifest Love With A Specific Person In 4 Steps
If you’ve been following the articles on my site for a while, you’ll notice there’s a common thread running through all the “how-tos.”
Relaxation, and imagination. These are key for manifesting whatever you desire.
So here’s how to manifest love with somebody in your life…
Choose a scene.
One that implies you and this person are already together. It could be the two of you holding hands, walking down the street. You look down, you see your hands intertwined, and see your shadows on the floor. You hear them say, “I love you.” Whatever you choose, keep it short so you can loop it as often as you need in your head without getting distracted.
Get into a relaxed state.
This could be shortly before you go to bed, or get out of bed. You want to be in that twilight area, in between sleep and wakefulness. You can also do this any other time, just get comfortable and relaxed, as though you were going to take a nap.
Replay your scene in your mind.
Do so with all the feeling you can, both emotion, and sensation. Make it vivid. Enjoy the feeling of it being already done.
Fall asleep feeling thankful you have your desire.
Or if you’re doing this in the morning or some other time, just come out of your imagination with thanks.
There is another, much simpler way to do this. The late, great Neville Goddard employed this method to get married to the love of his life, and against all odds and his former wife’s refusal for him to get married to someone else… He got the woman of his dreams!
Simply fall asleep each night as though they were right next to you.
You can imagine, anytime you think about it, that you have a ring on your finger. From them! ( If you want to get married, that is.)
Imagine a friend looking at you, and saying, “Wow, I’m so happy for you and so-and-so. You two are so great together!” Or imagine your friend saying, “You and so-and-so have been together for years! I’m jealous! What’s the secret?”
You can imagine you and this specific person, many years down the line, sitting together. You’re both scrolling through pictures on your laptop or something, from when you were younger.
Happy pictures of you two on dates. One of you says, “Wow. Look at us. So happy.” The other replies, “I love you,” as they take your hand in theirs and squeeze it.
The key to all this is to keep the scenes short, and stay in the state of having your desire fulfilled. When you feel yourself discouraged, don’t go looking for signs your exercise is working. Also, don’t force anything. Really. It’s already done!
Finally, stay open. Love might surprise you by coming from an entirely unexpected person!
And that’s how to manifest love with a specific person (or someone else).