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Written in the Stars? 27 Signs of Fate to Be with Someone

Written in the Stars? 27 Signs of Fate to Be with Someone

Are you in a relationship with someone, and you know deep down that this person you were meant to be with?

Or, are you in a relationship and wondering if this is the right person for you?

Sure, we often just know when something is right. But, there are also signs of fate to be with someone, and these signs can be quite glaring at times.

The last thing anyone wants is to be in a relationship with the wrong person.

But, if you don't get that gut feeling, how will you know if you are in the relationship you are meant to be in?

Today we are going to take a look at 27 signs of fate to be with someone. Let's get started.

What Are The Signs Of Fate To Be With Someone?

Signs of fate to be with someone

When you are with your significant other, does it feel like you are in the right place at the right time?

This is just one of the signs that you are fated to be with that person.

Let's look at 27 more signs that will help you know when you are fated to be with someone.

1. You Both Put Effort into the Relationship

Many people think that some happy relationships are effortless. This is actually never the case, not even by a long shot.

No matter how great a relationship is, there will always be times when it requires at least a little work.

Both parties must be willing to put in the time and effort to make things work.

When you are with the right person, you will know it because they will be willing to put as much effort into the relationship as you are.

When both partners are working to maintain the relationship, it is a good sign that this relationship will stand the test of time.

2. You can Be Yourself

Have you ever noticed that when you enter into a new relationship, you tend to act differently than you would around someone you've known for much longer?

It is only human nature to want to impress others, especially if you are interested in entering into a romantic relationship with them.

But, if you are with the right person, you won't feel the need to pretend to be anything you are not.

You will feel free to be yourself, and your partner will be able to be themselves.

You don't have to worry about acting silly, being angry, or showing emotions. You can truly be yourself when you are with the person you are meant to be with.

3. You Feel Safe with Your Partner

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When you are asked where you feel the safest, and the answer is with your partner, it is a pretty good sign that you are with the right person.

In this relationship, you are not afraid to talk about your feelings or share anything with them.

You can discuss your dreams and hopes, mistakes you have made in the past, and pretty much everything else under the sun.

The great thing about this relationship is that you can be open and honest with one another without the fear of being judged.

4. You Laugh a Lot Together

A couple who can laugh together tends to stay together. You can see the humor in every situation, even if it seems as if there is nothing to laugh about.

If you have a sarcastic sense of humor that may upset others, don't worry about it bothering your significant other.

They love your weird sense of humor and wouldn't want you to change that or any other aspect of your personality.

You and your partner are so in tune with one another that you may even laugh together about things that no one else understands.

5. You have a Strong Physical Attraction

If you are like most of us, you have had more than one relationship in your life. You have probably also noticed that some of these relationships are loaded with chemistry initially.

Over time, that sexual chemistry may fade if you are in the wrong relationship. This will not happen when you are with the person you are meant to be with.

When two people who are destined to be together meet, the physical chemistry is amazing. The best part is that feeling will never go away.

Even if you have been together for several decades, you will still have that intense physical attraction to one another.

6. They Help You to Be Your Best Possible Self

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Not only can you let your hair down and be yourself with this person, but they can also help you be the best you that you can be!

This is because they love you so much and support you in everything you do. You will grow together and help each other to be the best versions of yourselves.

We all have flaws, but our flaws do not matter to the person we are fated to be with. You will love each other, both because of and despite these flaws.

In fact, you will even be able to help each other recognize the flaws and work on them, so you both become better people in the long run.

7. You have the Same Priorities

One thing many people overlook in the beginning stages of a relationship is priorities.

In the beginning, we tend only to see the good things and figure there will be plenty of time to discuss priorities as the relationship progresses.

It is a good idea to discuss priorities in the earliest stages of the relationship. For one thing, it will let you know if you are really both on the same page and truly aligned.

If you don't share a lot of priorities, chances are you are not with the right person. Eventually, the relationship will fizzle out because you are moving in different directions in life.

8. You Love Them for Who They Are

When you are with the right person, there is nothing about them that you don't love and vice versa.

You won't even mind their little flaws that you would find annoying in other people.

When two people are meant to be together, they love each other as they are, not what they want them to be.

They go beyond accepting the flaws. In fact, they love each other even more because of those flaws.

The great thing about this is that you both likely have traits that make you feel a bit insecure.

You will be able to help each other learn to love those traits and minimize or eliminate those insecurities.

9. There is Nothing You Wouldn't Do for Them

Woman feeling happy on top of the mountain

When we are in loving, happy relationships, we don't mind sacrificing things to make our partners happy.

If you are with the right person, chances are there is nothing you wouldn't do for them.

In fact, even if it could mean that you could get hurt or feel sad, you will still do whatever it takes to make your partner happy.

This is probably one of the deepest expressions of love, and it is a way for you to show each other just how much you mean to one another.

10. You aren't Keeping Score

We often tend to do things for other people and then expect to be repaid at another time.

This is normal human interaction, but it isn't this way when you are with the person you are meant to be with.

For instance, if you cook dinner one night, you aren't going to automatically expect your romantic partner to prepare dinner the following night.

Basically, you just aren't keeping score. You do things for one another out of love and never expect anything in return.

11. You are Completely Transparent with Them

We all have our little secrets, things that we do not share with the rest of the world. But, when you are with the right person, you will feel comfortable enough to let them in on this private part of your life.

You won't even mind telling them things you don't even care to admit. There is nothing you would hold back from this person.

While it is important to be completely open and honest, remember that you need to find the right way to say things. After all, you don't want to hurt the person you love the most.

12. You Both Give Your All to the Relationship

When two people are truly meant to be together, they will do whatever it takes to keep the relationship working.

You will be more than willing to sacrifice to ensure each other is happy.

Both of you will feel this way, and you will try to please each other in every way possible. You will know if it isn't the right relationship because you just won't feel like this.

There will be days when you do more for them and days when they do more for you. Relationships are about to give and take, and you don't feel the need to keep score in this relationship.

13. You Share the Same Principles and Values

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If two people don't share the same principles and values, chances are the relationship is not meant to be, and it isn't going to work out, no matter how much you wish it would.

On the other hand, if you and your partner are meant to be together, it is likely that your principles and values are aligned.

This is why it is so important to have serious discussions in the early stages of any relationship.

If you find that you do not share the same principles and values, you can move on early.

This way, the relationship isn't going to carry on longer than it should, and you don't risk hurting each other.

14. The Relationship Gives Others Hope

When people see a couple that is completely happy and in love, it gives them hope that they can also have this same happiness and love in their own lives.

Just think about how you feel when you see two people who are in love. Their love and happiness are overflowing, and it is contagious.

Your wonderful relationship will show others that it is possible to find true love.

It may not happen today or even tomorrow, but there is hope, and that is what people get from your relationship.

15. You Love to Share New Experiences and Adventures

Couples often tend to do their own separate things and don't seem to do much together.

This is a pretty good sign that they are not with the people they are meant to be with.

But, if you seem to enjoy most of the same things and love to try new things together, chances are you are in the right relationship.

If you can travel, go to movies, etc. and not get into arguments over what you are doing, it is very likely that you are definitely meant for one another.

16. Everything Reminds You of Them

Woman contemplating and feeling relaxed

Do you see signs of your significant other everywhere you turn? Do you hear songs that remind you of this person?

If you answered “yes” to these questions, chances are you are with the person you are meant to be with. In fact, this is one of the biggest signs of fate to being with someone.

When you come right down to it, your partner is your other half. You are so much in love and so in tune with one another that many things you see and hear will make you think about each other.

17. You Know Each Other's Thoughts

If you are with the right person, chances are you have caught yourselves finishing each other's sentences. This is because your minds are so closely linked.

There is a very powerful force that binds the two of you together. As we already mentioned, this person is your other half, so it only makes sense that you think and feel the same things.

You automatically know your partner is hurting before saying a single word.

When you are together, things seem effortless, and you always know what each other is thinking.

18. You Always Find Your Way Back to Each Other

There are often times in relationships, even the best ones, where one or both parties need to take a step back. Couples may temporarily split up.

But, if you are truly meant to be together, there is no force in the world that can keep it from happening.

You will find your way back to each other when the time is right.

No matter what happens, neither one of you will be able to stay away from the other for too long.

When you are apart, it will feel like a part of yourself is missing.

19. You can Argue without Hurting Each Other

Couple arguing

Not everyone is going to agree about everything. This is even true for people who are destined to be together.

Sure, you have similar attitudes, beliefs, principles, etc. But this doesn't mean that you will always be on the same page about every little thing.

The good news is that even when you do have arguments, you will not end up doing or saying anything that will hurt your partner, and vice versa.

You know that you can disagree. You also know that you can agree to disagree on many subjects, which doesn't mean that you shouldn't be a couple.

20. You are Two Pieces of the Same Jigsaw Puzzle

When two people are meant to be a couple, they are much like two pieces of the same jigsaw puzzle. They aren't identical, but they fit together perfectly.

This is not easy to explain, but using the jigsaw puzzle analogy is one of the best ways to describe how the two of you are together.

You have a lot in common, but you also both have your own differences. But, even your differences are complementary. You are meant to be together.

21. You Trust Your Gut

When you are with the right person, you just know it deep down inside. You get that feeling and know that you can always trust your gut.

If something feels right, you know you should act on it. It is the same with romantic relationships. Sometimes you just know it is right.

When you can trust your gut and know that you are with the right person, you make the best possible choice for your own life and theirs.

Your gut is telling you that you are meant to be life partners.

22. You Don't Need to be Attached to the Hips

Some people feel that to have a good relationship, both parties need to spend all of their free time together. This couldn't be farther from the truth!

In fact, if you spend too much time together, you will get on each other's nerves. This will happen no matter how much you love one another.

It is healthy to be able to get out and do your own thing without your partner. You both need the freedom to be able to spend time apart and not feel sad or guilty about it.

If you and your partner can give each other space, your relationship will be much better.

23. You Feel Safe with Each Other

Couple sharing a romantic moment

We talked about being open and honest and sharing secrets and dreams. When two people can do this, it shows that they feel comfortable and safe with each other.

This all goes back to being able to be vulnerable. We often put walls up to keep people from getting too close to us, and we never feel completely safe with most people.

But, this will not be the case when you are with your true soulmate. You will feel free to talk about anything, and you will be able to deal with problems head-on without having to sugarcoat anything.

24. You have No Desire to be with Anyone Else

Have you ever been in a relationship where you found yourself being attracted to other people? If so, chances are that was not the right relationship for you.

Sure, it is only natural to find other people attractive. But, if you are in the right relationship, this is where it should end.

You won't feel the need or desire to be with anyone else, no matter how attractive you think they may be.

You will appreciate that they are attractive, but there will be no one who can compare to the person who is the love of your life.

25. You don't Have Jealousy Issues

Because you love and trust one another so completely, you don't worry about anyone else being able to come between you. You won't feel insecure and won't be worried if others find your mate attractive.

In fact, you may actually find it very flattering when someone is attracted to your partner. Obviously, you will hang onto your partner and not encourage infidelity.

But, you will also not be the least worried about infidelity either. This is because you know who they are coming home to every night.

You can even point out others you find attractive and vice versa without sparking any jealousy.

26. You have Each Other's Backs

There will be times when you feel that your relationship is being tested. It happens to the best of us and to all couples.

But, no matter what happens, you will always have each other's backs. When one falls, the other will lift them back up again, and you never feel the need to play the blame game.

Supporting each other through life's little challenges signifies that two people are meant to be together.

27. You Both Love Your In-laws

Happy family taking a group photo together

One of the hardest things for any relationship is when one or both parties do not like or get along well with their in-laws.

After all, if someone doesn't like your family, how will you ever be able to deal with family issues or even enjoy family get-togethers?

While you don't have to and shouldn't be expected to spend every waking hour with your other half's family members, it is important that you take time to get to know and love them.

If your significant other can get along with your family and actually likes them, and you feel the same way about their family, you have something really good going on.

In Closing

We all have that one person in life who we are fated to be with.

Whether we meet that person when we are young or older, we will know when we have met them.

There are plenty of signs of fate to be with someone.

If you are in a relationship and can see yourself and your partner in the signs we have spoken about today, chances are you are right where you need to be.

Cherish your relationship. Love them for who they are, and don't let the little things get in the way of true happiness.

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